Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Extended Family

There is something so incredible about the adoption support group. Every time I meet a family with a heart for adoption we share a connection that is indescribable. The celebration of their journey is instantaneous and genuine.

One specific family, Nate and Kerri Dawson, has been a huge source of encouragement. God has blessed us with this family to share in our adoption journeys. While reading the Dawson’s blog I was moved by their excitement for other families adopting. Real joy is simply contagious. I copied a video from the Dawsons's blog of a family being united with their son Isaac. The story of Isaac is a source of hope for both our families. Every time I watch the video I am brought to tears.

If you don't understand our passion for adoption or want to hear more stories please take some time to explore the links below. I think you will find it worthwhile.

The link to the Dawson's blog:
http://heartethiopia.blogspot.com/

The link to a posting that touched my heart about Isaac:
http://www.babeofmyheart.com/wow-wow-wow/

Ten minute video you won't regret watching:


Sharing, learning and celebrating together,
Erin

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

The Wall is Growing



We have almost filled another six foot ribbon with prayer pledges and financial gifts. Thank-you!!!! We are almost half way to the first deposit. Then we are able to start the home study process! Yeah!

Thanks for all your support.

Monday, July 12, 2010

Life's Check List

There was a time in my life when I thought I was doing good. My life’s checklist was moving along smoothly: Graduate college, get married, buy a home, get a dog, lead High School ministry and so forth. I lived life as if I had acquired all the wisdom I would need … at the ripe old age of 23. Shamefully, some of my most self-centered moments were found in leading Bible study. I knew the fill -in-the-blank answers, memorized my scriptures and thoroughly studied the leader’s notes. Prepared for life right?
This adoption process has transformed that old Erin. There are too many experiences to share each in detail. But, one specific encounter with a dear friend summarizes my recent lessons from God. This young lady, who was once a part of the High School Bible study I lead several years ago, stopped by for a visit. But the dynamic was changed. I was no longer the person mentoring and guiding. Rather she was sharing words of encouragement and support for me. She heard about our dream of adoption by reading this blog and responded generously. Yes, that is the second poor college student, without a job, sacrificing to support our adoption. It destroyed the image I had of myself.
My first reaction is to resist the generosity of this young lady and others. However, God is humbling my heart. Asking for help is hard. Accepting help is even more challenging. But, God is working on replacing my self-centered tendencies with humility. He is crushing my pride and transforming it into compassion. He has changed my life checklist mentality to His divine purpose for my life.

My new life check list: More of God and less of me. Look at the perfect example of Jesus and not my inner voice.

Thank-you friends for your generosity that is truly life changing!

Only by the blood of Jesus,

Thursday, July 8, 2010

All Things Are Possible

Today I went to the bank to deposit all the generous checks my friends and family have donated. Visiting the bank has been a regular occurrence since we mailed out the letter. (YEAH, BIG thank-you). I excitedly told the cashier that we are bringing our donations to the designated savings account for our adoption fund. Immediately the cashiers eyes teared up and she said that said has been adopted. She also has an adopted little brother from Korea. She continued to say that she could not imagine her life without the love of her adopted Mother, Father and brother. In the future she also has dreams of adoption, but has some fears for making it happen. The financial sacrifice is the primary deter.

Friends, I am here to say that that anyone can make it happen!!! Yes, it is possible!

We have raised $2,979 so far. That is incredible! This journey is not about us making “good decisions” or “being wise with our money.” It is all about allowing God to finish what He has started. By Him alone this process is possible. Friends, this means we need to humble ourselves and ask for help. Then trust that His plans are perfect. If adoption is something you want to pursue I would love to chat more!

With a hope filled spirit and heart of gratitude,
Erin